13 results for tag: listening skills
Relationship Recommendations During Covid-19
We all need relationship recommendations from time to time. In this current pandemic, there are such intense pressures on relationships for couples who are trying to figure out how to get along and thrive during Covid-19, or just survive in some cases. Most couples have never had to experience such a high degree of close proximity for an extended amount of time like we are needing to manage right now. Add in the economic stress and fear of physical safety, and it is no surprise that more couples are reaching out for support and guidance than any other time in history.
Please remind yourself and each other that this is temporary, you need each other and you really do love each other, even if none of the above feel true at this moment. I encourage you to trust your history, and that you have endured difficult challenges before and are still together. And most of all, PLEASE BE GENTLE WITH YOURSELF AND YOUR PARTNER! This is an incredibly stressful time in each and every one of our lives. We need to feel safe while navigating this unique global situation. Trust your love, connection and your foundation as your guides and collective resources. Please be gentle with each other, and yourself. Ask for help if you need it.
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... Conflict Resolution Workshop – Individuals & Couples!
Conflict Resolution Workshop – Individuals & Couples!
I am thrilled to be offering a three-session Conflict Resolution Workshop at Kindred Community Acupuncture in Rhode Island on the border of Pawtucket and Providence! The three dates are April 6th and 20th, and May 4th all from 3:30 - 5:30. I have scheduled the dates two weeks apart so that all participants have time to practice their new skills in the real world and return to share experiences, challenges and questions.
Everyone is welcome to participate in this training, whether you are joining us by yourself, a friend, family member or partner, you are welcome to join us. It is recommended that you take part in all three sessions, especially the first on April 6th....
Everyone is welcome to participate in this training, whether you are joining us by yourself, a friend, family member or partner, you are welcome to join us. It is recommended that you take part in all three sessions, especially the first on April 6th.... Acknowledging Pain Is Highest Form of Support
Simply acknowledging someone else's pain or suffering is such a powerful means of support. It lets them know you are listening, you care and that they matter. When someone we know is suffering, we want to help. For many of us, our initial response is to offer them advice, guidance or "positive thoughts". Our intention is in the right place, although not nearly as effective as acknowledging their experience. If your goal is to provide help that facilitates a change, I invite you to consider acknowledging them before any other form of support.
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Listen To Their Story – Ex-CIA Undercover Officer
The video below is titled "Former Undercover CIA Officer Talks War And Peace". While I was listening and watching, what was loudest to me is how this applies to everyday life, not just foreign wars. What if we listen to their story as a practice we all keep when trying to resolve conflicts with partners, lovers, friends, family, neighbors and co-workers?
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