Why Learn How To Do Nothing?

Do Nothing. Just writing those two words feels freeing. I am so grateful that I have learned how to do nothing successfully for almost twenty-five years. I am not a bum or lazy, much to the contrary. I just do nothing at least once a day to support effectiveness and attention. I do nothing to stay present, or become present again after distraction or lack of focus seep in. I do nothing because it is important, maybe necessary to be the person I aspire.

 

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Really? Do Nothing?

I want to be clear about what I mean when I say I do nothing. To me, doing nothing are my fun and casual code words for meditation and/or reflection. When I am doing nothing, I most certainly doing something. I used to do nothing more than I do nothing these days. I need to recommit to do nothing more often.

 

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Five reasons why we should all learn how to do nothing

“The idea that “doing nothing” is a skill to be learned might seem bewildering at first. Surely it’s just a question of stopping doing anything else? Yet that’s far easier said than done. It’s long been recognised – by everyone from the Buddha to John Keats – that “doing” can be a kind of compulsion, an addiction we only fail to acknowledge as such because society praises us for it. Indeed, learning how to do nothing might be the most vital skill for thriving in our frenetic, overwhelmed, always-connected culture. Here are five key reasons why:

1. “Doing nothing” isn’t really doing nothing

Assuming you’re not dead, you’re always doing something – even if you’re just savouring the pleasures of idleness. (To psychologists, such savouring is far from passive: it’s a learnable set of skills for relishing the moment, for example, by focusing on each of your senses in turn.) But what’s usually meant by “doing nothing” is doing nothing useful. The problem is that “useful” gets defined in ways that don’t always serve our interests. Working harder to earn more to buy more stuff is useful for the people selling the stuff – but not necessarily for you. And usefulness is intrinsically future-oriented: it yanks you from the present, making savouring impossible. So perhaps “doing nothing” is synonymous with feeling alive.

2. Aimlessness, rest and even boredom can boost creativity

There’s good reason why so many celebrated authors and artists incorporate long walks in their daily routines. One is the well-studied “incubation effect”: ceasing to focus on a project seems to give your unconscious permission to get to work. (In one study, people who knew they’d be returning to a creative-thinking task after a break did much better at it when they resumed, unlike those who weren’t expecting to return to the task – suggesting that it was unconscious processing, not simply taking a rest, that made the difference.)

Other studies looking at boredom (in one, participants were made to copy numbers from a phone book) suggest it motivates people to find interesting ways to alleviate it – thereby triggering creative ideas. Meanwhile, aimless thinking combats the tunnel vision that can result from fixating on goals. When you’ve no end in mind, you’re less likely to exclude new ideas as irrelevant.

3. Too much busyness is counterproductive

We chronically confuse effort with effectiveness: a day spent on trifling tasks feels exhausting and virtuous, so we assume – often wrongly – it must have been useful. Worse, writes the Dutch work expert Manfred Kets de Vries, busyness “can be a very effective defence mechanism for warding off disturbing thoughts and feelings”. It’s when doing nothing that we finally confront what matters.

4. The brain depends on downtime

Ever since the industrial revolution, we’ve treated humans like machines, assuming that the way to get more done is to push ourselves, or others, to keep going for longer. But neuroscientists are increasingly finding that our brains depend on downtime – not just for recharging batteries, but to process that data we’re deluged with, to consolidate memory and reinforce learning, by strengthening the neural pathways that make such feats possible. In one 2009 study, brain imaging suggested that people faced with a strange task – controlling a computer joystick that didn’t obey the usual rules – were actively coming to grips with learning this new skill during seemingly passive rest periods.

5. You’ll regain control of your attention

Don’t expect doing nothing to feel easy at first: resisting the urge to do things takes willpower. In Buddhism, according to the meditation instructor Susan Piver, “busyness is seen as a form of laziness” – it’s a failure to withhold your attention from whatever random email, task or webpage lays claim to it. The challenge has never been harder: the modern economy, especially online, is a battle for your attention. But the good news is that learning to do nothing will help you retake control of your attention at other times, too. One trick: schedule “do nothing” time, like you’d schedule tasks. Just don’t expect others to understand when you decline some social event on the grounds that you’re busy not being busy.”

via Five reasons why we should all learn how to do nothing | Life and style | The Guardian.

 

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Children Know How To Do Nothing

I thoroughly enjoy watching a child do nothing. Kids are highly skilled at doing nothing for long periods of time when it is on their terms. A child can watch the ocean waves or the snow falling without losing focus for hours, if it is something they feel moved towards. Have you ever seen how excited and inspired a child can be watching a baby, fish tank  or pet? This is a form of doing nothing.

Animals Know How To Do Nothing

Similar to kids, animals know how do nothing. In fact, they can do nothing for hours without needing to do anything but shift body positions. Have you ever noticed the focused stare of a cat out the window? They are completely still but attentive and alert. This is what I try to emulate with meditation, stillness with focus and attention.

 

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Sitting Still Doing Nothing – Do Nothing

“The essential Taoist approach to life is captured in the phrase ching-jing wu-wei, literally, ‘sitting still doing nothing.’

“‘Doing nothing’ doesn’t mean sitting around all day like a lump on a log, but rather doing only those things that really need to be done and doing them in a way that does not run counter to the natural order of Tao and the patterned flow of cosmic forces.

“It means engaging only in spontaneous, unpremeditated activity, doing things purely for their own sake rather than for ulterior motives, and living in harmony with rather than trying to conquer nature. Perhaps most importantly, wu-wei means knowing when to stop rather than overdoing things and knowing when to refrain entirely from inappropriate action.”

Daniel P. Reid The Tao of Health, Sex and Longevity

 

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How often Do You Do Nothing?

“Doing nothing feels like the complete opposite of being productive, but after you’ve tried it you will see how effective it can be. Why do you think Google adopts a company policy that has an emphasis on allowing their staff so much free time?

A lot of people say that they are too busy to do nothing. Yet those same people will happily invest hours in front of the television, or spend plenty of time fretting and worrying about something without allowing themselves the pleasure to just be.

I’ve noticed that an hour slumped in front of the TV feels very different than one hour sitting in the park.

Actually, doing nothing can be a great investment into your personal well-being and something worth making time for.”  How Doing Nothing Helps You Get More Done

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Do Nothing – The Importance of Doing Nothing

“But doing nothing has never really been acceptable. We associate it with irresponsibility, wasting our life. Most of us feel guilty if we don’t have something to do. On the other hand we get a buzz when we feel really busy. Distraction-inducing behaviours like constantly checking email stimulate the brain to shoot dopamine into the bloodstream giving us a rush that can make stopping so much harder.

The danger is we may lose our connections, not just with one another but with ourselves. If we don’t allow ourselves periods of uninterrupted, freely associated thought then personal growth, insight and creativity are less likely to emerge.”

from The Importance of Doing Nothing By Manfred Kets De Vries

 

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To Do Nothing Takes Great Effort and Practice

I still to this day feel that learning how to meditate and do nothing has been the hardest lesson in life. Most other lessons or Teachings have come from when I sit and do nothing. To do nothing takes plenty of practice and commitment. Doing nothing is different from popping open a can of beer and watching TV. To do nothing is to create space and time to be with yourself and your thoughts. You get to know your fears and how to shift them. Do nothing enough and you will have clarity about your strengths and values. In short, do nothing and you will get to know yourself. How can that be bad?

Do you think if you learned how to do nothing more often that you would be more effective and productive with work, family, relationships and friends? If you do nothing every day for thirty minutes, do you think you will have more peace and contentment?

 

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